January 10, 2012 2 Comments
How much time should we be spending together? Well, every couple is different, each with different needs. What works for some may not work for us. So I’d say, let’s not wait two years or three years or four years. Let’s spend as much time as we can right now. You see, two people in love should be able to allay their fears, mesh their lives together and find ‘the right amount of togetherness’ that works for them, regardless of what works for anybody else.
… do realize that things change over time. Work, family and other commitments will wane over the years. We can also look at it this way: spending less time together now while our careers are on the build may mean more time together later when our works have plateaued.
… the only time we’re gonna have a problem about how much time we spend together, is when you are unhappy about it. For instance, if you want more time tending to that house than go snorkeling with me, that’s an issue we really have to work on together.
At the end of the day, just don’t ask something from me what you yourself cannot do.